Sex Therapy
Sex Therapy for Men
A confidential, non-judgemental space to explore sexual concerns and build a more fulfilling intimate life.
What is Sex Therapy?
Sex therapy is a form of talking therapy that focuses specifically on sexual concerns, difficulties, and questions. It provides a safe, confidential space to explore what is getting in the way of a satisfying sexual and intimate life.
As a COSRT-accredited sex therapist, I work with men individually to understand the psychological, relational, and physical factors that contribute to sexual difficulties — and to develop practical strategies for change.
My Approach
With over 30 years of clinical experience, I bring a depth of knowledge and a genuinely personalised approach to every client. I draw on a range of evidence-based modalities — including clinical sexology, EMDR, IFS, and mindfulness-based ACT techniques — selecting the methods most suited to your particular situation.
My practice is affirming of all sexual orientations, gender identities, and relationship structures. I work with men individually, and sessions are available online.
Issues I Work With
Sex therapy can be effective for a wide range of concerns. Some of the most common issues I support men with include:
Problem Sexual Behaviour
Patterns of sexual behaviour that feel out of control, causing shame, harm, or interference with daily life, such as sex/porn addiction, chemsex.
Sexual Anxiety & Performance Pressure
Worry, fear, or self-consciousness around sexual performance that interferes with intimacy and enjoyment.
Sexual Identity & Orientation
Exploring questions around sexual identity, orientation, or gender in a supportive, affirming environment.
Trauma & Sexual Abuse
Processing the impact of past sexual trauma or abuse on current sexual functioning, relationships, and sense of self.
Low Sexual Desire
Persistent low interest in sex that causes personal distress or relationship difficulties.
Relationship & Intimacy Difficulties
Challenges with emotional or physical intimacy, communication about sex, or mismatched desire within a relationship.
Erectile Dysfunction
Difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection, particularly where psychological factors are involved.
Premature or Delayed Ejaculation
Concerns about ejaculatory control that affect sexual satisfaction and confidence.
COFRA 1-2-1
A 16 session programme for men at risk of online or contact offending, or those struggling with harmful sexual thoughts and behaviours. Each session is 90-minutes. Cost on request.
How Sessions Work
Free Consultation
We begin with a free 20-minute consultation to discuss what has brought you to therapy and whether we are a good fit.
Assessment
The first sessions focus on understanding your history, concerns, and goals in depth.
Therapy
We work collaboratively using evidence-based approaches tailored to your specific needs and circumstances.
Review & Closure
Progress is reviewed regularly, and therapy concludes when you have met your goals or feel ready to continue independently.
Ready to Take the First Step?
Getting in touch is the hardest part. I offer a free 20-minute consultation so you can ask questions and decide if therapy feels right for you.
Get in Touch